My biggest issue is that I don’t know when to quit, I will love people until I have twisted myself into a new shape. I will love them brutal and careful and gentle and when it’s time to let them go I can’t remember how to unclench my fists from the back of their shirt so they have to break my fingers to get it to happen
- Your friends are always right: Whether you like it or not they are trying to look out for you and they know what and who is best for you. Don’t try to prove them wrong you’re only hurting yourself.
- Never lose sight and focus of who you are: We tend to lose ourselves over the obsession of things and people. We want to feel like we belong, we want to feel wanted, we want to feel important. Who are you without yourself – become your main focus
- Belong to yourself – Self-love is so IMPORTANT there is no way that you can ever love someone else without loving yourself first. Respect yourself enough to get out of any habit, relationship or pattern that is unhealthy for you. You attract what you are – become peaceful and happy and the universe will return the favour.
- I love me – Three words I thought I would never say. I fucking love me. I am beautiful. I am smart (shit do you know how many dumb bitches there are out there who cannot even spell the word “embarrass”, I am so fucking smart) and you know what I realized? I am the alpha female.
- Alpha Female: Urban Dictionary defines the alpha female as being “intelligent”, “intellectual” as well as “strong”, “sexy”, ”confident” she doesn’t succumb to being anything less than she is and will choose herself, her being, her ‘success’ over anyone or anything. She prefers passion over romance and is often misunderstood by beta males who see her as a threat or overpowering. The only match for an alpha female would be an alpha male.
- Power recognizes power – Cut off anything and everything that is preventing you from reaching your goals, dreams and derailing you from your path to success – be it careerwise, positivity vibes etc. A ‘powerful’ man will support his woman on her road to greatness and become her pillar of strength, she too will do the same and together they begin building the temple for which their lives will grow TOGETHER inside that temple.
- God will guide you, help you, love you through every little moment, minute and second in your life – I’m not religious, more spiritual than anything but trust me when I say when in doubt, pray. The answer will always be there, not always clear but always there.
- This is so important: NEVER IGNORE THE WARNING SIGNS! – we as humans often ignore the obvious in ‘hopes’ that things will get better along the way. Sure there’s nothing wrong in being hopeful BUT if more than three things go wrong within a very short time span it won’t get better. Sometimes (actually most of the time) the best thing to do is to abort the mission. That doesn’t make you a failure, it only makes you wiser and well learned for the next mission or… next person shall I say.
this girl has another thing coming if she thinks i’m done with her.
no. sorry. no.
the disrespectful shall be put in their disrespectful corner